In the summer of 2002 at the age of fifteen, I had the opportunity to accomplish one of my goals in life. Being youngest out of three children, I was very lucky to be the first child to visit my parents’ native homeland in Cambodia. I’ve always wanted to know more about my culture and about my parents’ childhood and their atrocious past during the Khmer Rouge regime. More importantly, I wanted to visit my relatives who I have never seen before until the day I arrived in Pochentong Airport in Cambodia. During my time there, I experienced a life changing event that I am very proud of which will affect me for the rest of my life.
Having been raised in America, I was affected greatly by the cultural barriers, but I did not let that stop me from reaching my goals. The different culture enriched me as a person because I became more open- minded to a new way of life. I woke to the sounds of clucking chickens and fell asleep to the sounds of hundreds of crickets. Unlike in America, I helped catch my own dinner like shrimp and crabs. The best part of the trip was visiting the ancient Angkor Temples and getting a first hand experience in learning about its history.
My trip to Cambodia proved to be a great challenge, but I have gained so much insight about my parents. I learned about my parents’ past from my numerous relatives. One of the most touching stories I’ve heard was about my mother. When she was still in Cambodia, the Khmer Rouge attacked her city and tried to break up her family. When they tried to take her father away, she stood up to the Khmer Rouge and risked her life. My aunt had to convince them to not execute my mother who tried desperately to keep her family altogether. Stories such as these showed me how strong and loyal my parents are. As I am growing up to be a young woman, I want to be as powerful a role model as my parents are to me.
To see my relatives in Cambodia became part of my ultimate goals in life because I do not have any other relatives in the U.S. besides my immediate family. It was extraordinary to see over twenty aunts, uncles, and cousins greet me when I visited them. No words can describe the feelings I felt when I united with my own flesh and blood. By meeting my family, I felt that a part of me was fulfilled.
Visiting Cambodia for the first time is definitely the proudest accomplishment I will ever encounter. I am proud of myself for going there because, unlike my older siblings, I had the chance to see a rich culture, my parents’ homeland, and all of my relatives. After the trip, I realized how important and rewarding it is to set a goal and to have the remarkable opportunity to accomplish a dream.